Public Events

  • Kink Educational Workshops - $40

    These 90min Kink Workshops are focused on creating progressive, intentional frameworks for BDSM experiences and skill building while providing cohesive support materials.

    Taught by industry professionals, workshops are designed to create sustainable, safe, and repeatedly successful encounters.

    We host a wide range of topics including but limited to:

    • BDSM 101

    • Hard Skills IE Impact, Sensory etc.

    • Consent and Negotiation

    • Headspace

  • Vettings - Free

    Vetting Events are several dates a month and are generally directly prior to our Club Events.

    What does it mean to be “Vetted” for Club Events?

    1. You must register an account in our private booking system so we have your legal name, birthdate, emergency contact, and a signed Waiver.

    2. You must go over basic safety and sign O/our Club Values

    3. You will be issued a custom Membership Card that displays your chosen Kink name and a unique participant number that correlates to your account.

      This card MUST BE PRESENTED to enter any Club Events. If you do not have your card with you, you will NOT BE ALLOWED ENTRY.

  • Newbie Mix N' Mingle - $15

    Specifically designed for those new to The Parlour, Lifestyle, or the Minneapolis Scene. This intimate event is limited to 12 Kinksters so you can receive individual attention and get all your questions answered.

    Activities:

    • Vetting

    • Kinky Ice Breaker Games

    • Community Connection

    • Dungeon Tours

    • Light Pro Dom Scenes

    • Minneapolis Kinky 411

    Held once a month(ish) on Fridays

  • The Parlour Munch - Free

    Coming Soon

Club Events - Must Be a Member and Vetted to Attend

  • Monthly Themed Play Parties

    Our signature themed Play Parties transform every gathering into a unique experience. With creative dress-up themes, each event blends socializing, fashion, and consensual play in a welcoming, judgment-free environment.

    • Open Dungeon Play

    • Performative Scenes

    • Sober Bar & Snacks

    • Themed Pro Photobooth

    • Pro Scenes offered by Resident Doms. Suggested Tribute of sliding scale $25 -$75

    • Aftercare Area & Quiet Lounge

    Be sure to read about exact Rules, Etiquette & Code of Conduct. You’ll see dates and themes under booking.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR CLUB CARD AT THE DOOR.

  • Open Dungeon

    Guided by an experienced Pro Domme, the evening is moderated for safety and flow.

    • Open use of tools including floggers, sensory tools, bondage gear, mats, etc.

    • Option to bring your own tools and equipment. See O/our Rules & Code of Conduct for exact play rules

    • A Resident Dom that will offer Pro Scenes. Suggested Tribute of sliding scale $25 -$75

    We offer a fully stocked Dungeon that offers two different play spaces for varying tastes.

    Open to beginner, intermediate and advanced players. Newbies are encouraged to join Our Mix & Mingle event first to build confidence before stepping into the Open Dungeon.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR CLUB CARD AT THE DOOR.

  • Kinky Game Night

    Come roll the dice on a night of fun, flirty, and delightfully dirty tabletop board games in a kinkster-friendly space!

    Dress to impress in your favorite fetish wear, be cozy in your onsies, or just come as you are, all are welcome.

    Gather your crew, unleash your inner perv-nerd, and let’s make it a game night to remember!

    Kinky Gaming is held quarterly.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR CLUB CARD AT THE DOOR.

  • Kinky Movie Night

    Kinky movie nights are held quarterly.

    W/we screen the sexiest, silliest, and worst BDSM movies with fellow Kinksters in a Kink positive environment!

    • Popcorn? Provided.

    • Silver Screen? Of course.

    • Post-movie discussion where we lovingly roast, critique, and unpack the spicy, the sketchy, and the steamy? You better believe it.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR CLUB CARD AT THE DOOR

Pro Events -

  • High Protocol Tea

    Grace, discipline, and tradition come together at High Protocol Tea, an elegant social experience that blends the timeless pageantry of traditional afternoon high tea with the structure and ritual of High Protocol BDSM.

    Partake in a multitude of teas, coffee, petit fours, and savories in our sophisticated and luxurious Kinky atmosphere.

    Through refined etiquette, service, and protocol, participants explore the beauty of intentional power exchange and discipline structures.

  • Small Group Scenes

    Small Group Scenes

    Tailored for an intimate group of 2-5 participants, these 60min scenes are an accessible gateway into the world of professional domination.

    Each offering is a unique opportunity to experience the thrill of Pro Domination at a rate that even the most economically minded patron can’t resist.

    Presented by O/our resident Pro Dommes and subject to their private approval, rules etc. these scenes rotate themes, and experiences.

    Note we do not offer sex or illegal sexual services. Do not ask.

  • Private Pro Sessions

    Step into an exquisite realm where your deepest fantasies come to life in a luxurious private experience, meticulously crafted to tantalize your senses and ignite your desires.

    Our Resident Dommes are classically trained in the art of refined domination and the ultimate in intimate luxury.

    Our Luxury Pro Dungeon boasts stunning handmade large scale furniture, tools from across the world, and a beautiful calming atmosphere.

    Presented by O/our Resident Pro Dommes and subject to their private approval, rules and pricing.

    Note we do not offer sex or illegal sexual services. Do not ask.

  • Opulence Events

    Coming Soon

Private Kink Lessons for Lifestyle, Pro Dom/mes & Wellness Professionals

  • The Kink Koach - MistrixxJ

    Read more information on MistrixxJ’s Staff Page.

  • Professor "Daddi" Liana

    Read more information on Professor “Daddi” Liana’s Staff Page.