The Parlour
Lifestyle Social Club & Kink Education
Featured Event
Holiday Heathens
December 13th | 7:00pm-11:00pm
Social Club
Memberships
$1 - $69/mo
Welcome to our Private Lifestyle Social Club, where quality meets pleasure in an unparalleled experience.
Elevate your Lifestyle social connections with our Club Memberships, offering a unique opportunity to meet like-minded individuals who appreciate the finer... and naughtier... things in life.
Join us today!
BDSM & Kink
Education
Our Minneapolis based BDSM Kink workshops and classes are lead by industry professionals and are focused on creating progressive intentional frameworks for Lifestyle experiences and skill building. We provide simplified cohesive support materials for creating sustainable, safe, and repeatedly successful encounters.
101 Basics & Safety
BDSM Skills & Technique
Headspace & Protocols
Practicums to practice with fellow Kinksters
Private Pro
Sessions
Step into an exquisite realm where your deepest fantasies come to life in a luxurious private BDSM experience, meticulously crafted to tantalize your senses and ignite your desires.
Every detail, from the sumptuous surroundings to the finest implements, is curated to create an unforgettable experience of power and pleasure.
Discreet, Private & Vetted
Classically Trained Pros
Versatile Play
Sober Environment
Tailored Experiences
Opulent Themed Spaces
Large Scale Lifestyle Furniture
“Play keeps us
young, adaptable,
compassionate,
and curious”
O/our Club Values
The Parlour is first and foremost a Lifestyle focused and sober space that strives to provide high quality and safe experiences for consenting adult participants. Consent, Personal Responsibility, and Kindness are the three foundational values of our club and will be expected of all members, guests, students, and staff in every experience.
Consent
It is O/our value that consent is the most important aspect of any experience. We operate on a active consent rule where only yes means yes. No means no. Maybe also means no. No response also means no. Be prepared to hear “No” and accept it with grace. No is a complete sentence and requires no explanation.
Personal Responsibility
It is O/our value that no matter what role you are playing in a Lifestyle experience, you as a consenting adult are ultimately responsible for your own safety, comfort, feelings, traumas, and actions/inactions. While W/we strive to create an environment that is safe, conscientious, welcoming and fun, it is your personal responsibility to signal/speak up if you are uncomfortable, in distress, or have an issue that needs to be addressed.
Kindness
It is O/our value that Kindness is the key to successful encounters. While The Parlour is not politically focused, we are a fem LGBTQIA owned and run space that expects all participants to practice kindness and demonstrate actions that align with the acceptance of: diverse sexual orientation, diverse gender expression, diverse physical appearance, and diverse Lifestyle expressions. Kindness to U/us means you will not comment or act in a negative way towards another while in O/our House, will engage in mature and healthy communication practices, and use common sense.
What is BDSM?
BDSM, an acronym encompassing Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism, is a sophisticated and consensual practice that delves into the realms of power dynamics, sensory experiences, and imaginative fantasies. Central to BDSM is the paramount importance of trust, open communication, and mutual respect, ensuring all participants engage willingly and safely.
A dominatrix, a prominent figure within this domain, is an individual—often a woman—who assumes the dominant role, skillfully orchestrating scenes that may involve physical restraint, psychological control, or elaborate role-playing. Her prowess and commanding presence are essential to the immersive experience sought by her submissive counterparts.
Private BDSM clubs serve as exclusive sanctuaries where aficionados of these practices can gather, socialize, and explore their desires within a secure and discreet environment. These venues often feature specialized equipment and play spaces, facilitating a broad spectrum of activities from the subtle to the intense.
Kink education is an integral aspect of the BDSM community, offering workshops, seminars, and resources that impart knowledge on techniques, safety protocols, and ethical considerations. This education fosters a well-informed and conscientious community, empowering individuals to pursue their interests with confidence and care.
In essence, BDSM is a rich, multifaceted practice that celebrates the consensual exploration of boundaries and desires, all within a framework of respect and understanding.