Private Lifestyle Social Club

& Kink Education

Featured Event

Leather & Latex

Themed Play Party

Apr 26th | 7:00pm-11:00pm

Join U/us Today

You MUST be a Vetted Member of the Club to attend anything other than Educational Workshops, Gaming Events or Vendor Fairs. Attend O/our FREE Vetting & Dungeon 101 to join in all the fun!

Social Club Memberships Range from FREE - $99/mo

  • Themed Parties are once a month(ish) and rotate themes.

    All Night Open Dungeon Play, Performances, Sober Bar & Snacks, Themed Photobooth, Pro Photographer, Chance to scene with a Pro Domme, Music & Dancefloor, Aftercare Area & Quiet Lounge

    See more about exact Rules, Etiquette & Code of Conduct. See dates and themes under booking.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR PARLOUR MEMBERSHIP CARD AT THE DOOR or you will not be admitted regardless of ticket or membership status. No refunds will be given if you forget your card.

  • A private 60min small group scene with a Pro Dominatrix. These are a perfect way to experience the thrill of Pro Domination at a rate that even the most economically minded patron can’t resist.

    Presented by O/our resident Pro Dommes and subject to their private approval, rules etc. these scenes rotate themes, and experiences.

  • Bi- Monthly on Fridays from 7:30pm -9:30pm. See Booking Page for exact availability.

    There will be at least one Resident Domme that will DM and offer scenes. Open use of equipment and spaces for light play. You may bring your own tools and equipment.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR PARLOUR MEMBERSHIP CARD AT THE DOOR or you will not be admitted regardless of ticket or membership status. No refunds will be given if you forget your card.

  • Kinky movie nights are held quarterly.

    We screen some of the best, worst, funniest, and sexiest BDSM themed movies!

    MUST PRESENT YOUR PARLOUR MEMBERSHIP CARD AT THE DOOR or you will not be admitted regardless of ticket or membership status. No refunds will be given if you forget your card.

  • Kinky Gaming is held quarterly

    We will have a DM (the other kind) run a campaign and provide various sexy themed board games. You may also bring your own games in addition to those provided.

    MUST PRESENT YOUR PARLOUR MEMBERSHIP CARD AT THE DOOR or you will not be admitted regardless of ticket or membership status. No refunds will be given if you forget your card.

  • Prepare yourselves for an adventure unlike any other as Mistrixx J invites you to "Escape the Dungeon" in an electrifying 60-minute group scene experience!

    Picture yourself strapped to an X, blindfolded, with anticipation building as you await the next ... puzzle clue!

    Join your Pro DM, Mistrixx J, for an exhilarating journey filled with escape room-style puzzles, impact and sensory play with a myriad of tools, bondage on large-scale furniture, verbal play, and, of course, plenty of laughter!

  • Opulence events are straight out of your most lavish fantasies, and everything you've wanted from an exclusive VIP luxury kink event.

    Hosted in a 10,00sqft private Minneapolis Mansion, catered by a Professional Private Chef, you are invited to spoil and serve Our Royal, Divine and Decadent Selves; the most desirable Pro Dommes in the Twin Cities.

    Featuring a rotating roster of both O/our incredible resident Dommes and special guests from local luminaries to national treasures.

Social Club

Memberships

Welcome to our exclusive Lifestyle social club, where quality meets pleasure in an unparalleled experience. Elevate your Lifestyle social connections with our Club Memberships, offering a unique opportunity to meet like-minded individuals who appreciate the finer... and naughtier... things in life.

Join us in creating a community that embodies respect, passion, consent, sophistication, and the art of meaningful connections.

You MUST be a Vetted Member of the Club to attend anything other than Educational Events or Vendor Fairs. Book our FREE Vetting & Dungeon 101.

Social Club Memberships Range from FREE - $99/mo

  • Members Only Club Events

  • Monthly Themed Play Parties

  • Small Group Scenes with Our Pros

  • Unique Club Card

  • Exclusive Perks

Luxury Private

Pro Sessions

Step into an exquisite realm where your deepest fantasies come to life in a luxurious private BDSM experience, meticulously crafted to tantalize your senses and ignite your desires.

Every detail, from the sumptuous surroundings to the finest implements, is curated to create an unforgettable experience of power and pleasure.

  • Discreet, Private & Vetted

  • Classically Trained Pros

  • Versatile Play

  • Sober Environment

  • Tailored Experiences

  • Opulent Themed Spaces

  • Large Scale Lifestyle Furniture

BDSM & Kink

Education

Our Minneapolis based BDSM Kink workshops and classes are lead by industry professionals and are focused on creating progressive intentional frameworks for Lifestyle experiences and skill building. We provide simplified cohesive support materials for creating sustainable, safe, and repeatedly successful encounters.

  • 101 Basics & Safety

  • BDSM Skills & Technique

  • Headspace & Protocols

  • Practicums to practice with fellow Kinksters

Play keeps us

young, adaptable,

compassionate,

and curious”

O/our Club Values

The Parlour is first and foremost a Lifestyle focused and sober space that strives to provide high quality and safe experiences for consenting adult participants. Consent, Personal Responsibility, and Kindness are the three foundational values of our club and will be expected of all members, guests, students, and staff in every experience.

Consent

It is O/our value that consent is the most important aspect of any experience. We operate on a active consent rule where only yes means yes. No means no. Maybe also means no. No response also means no. Be prepared to hear “No” and accept it with grace. No is a complete sentence and requires no explanation.

Personal Responsibility

It is O/our value that no matter what role you are playing in a Lifestyle experience, you as a consenting adult are ultimately responsible for your own safety, comfort, feelings, traumas, and actions/inactions. While W/we strive to create an environment that is safe, conscientious, welcoming and fun, it is your personal responsibility to signal/speak up if you are uncomfortable, in distress, or have an issue that needs to be addressed.

Kindness

It is O/our value that Kindness is the key to successful encounters. While The Parlour is not politically focused, we are a fem LGBTQIA owned and run space that expects all participants to practice kindness and demonstrate actions that align with the acceptance of: diverse sexual orientation, diverse gender expression, diverse physical appearance, and diverse Lifestyle expressions. Kindness to U/us means you will not comment or act in a negative way towards another while in O/our House, will engage in mature and healthy communication practices, and use common sense.

What is BDSM?

BDSM, an acronym encompassing Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism, is a sophisticated and consensual practice that delves into the realms of power dynamics, sensory experiences, and imaginative fantasies. Central to BDSM is the paramount importance of trust, open communication, and mutual respect, ensuring all participants engage willingly and safely.

A dominatrix, a prominent figure within this domain, is an individual—often a woman—who assumes the dominant role, skillfully orchestrating scenes that may involve physical restraint, psychological control, or elaborate role-playing. Her prowess and commanding presence are essential to the immersive experience sought by her submissive counterparts.

Private BDSM clubs serve as exclusive sanctuaries where aficionados of these practices can gather, socialize, and explore their desires within a secure and discreet environment. These venues often feature specialized equipment and play spaces, facilitating a broad spectrum of activities from the subtle to the intense.

Kink education is an integral aspect of the BDSM community, offering workshops, seminars, and resources that impart knowledge on techniques, safety protocols, and ethical considerations. This education fosters a well-informed and conscientious community, empowering individuals to pursue their interests with confidence and care.

In essence, BDSM is a rich, multifaceted practice that celebrates the consensual exploration of boundaries and desires, all within a framework of respect and understanding.